Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Why La Dolce Veda?


It means the sweet life, and it's also my name. In several languages my name means life. Sometimes it's spelled differently and pronounced the same, sometimes it's pronounced differently but spelled the same. My name is pronounced with a long E--Veeda or Vita.

I grew up not liking my name. I wanted a simple more common name, something like Lisa or Kathy or Debbie—anything but Veda. It made me feel different—in oh so many ways. Not only did I have an olive complexion and darker hair than my sister and many of my cousins, I was quieter and a total bookworm. Stick me in a room with a good book and I was one happy camper. However, I wanted to be more out- going. I wanted to be normal—lighter bouncy hair, more playful, more fun--with a good solid name.

I think as I got older I grew into my name. I embraced it. I accepted it. Life. And the sweet life was to become my life. I've often wondered why it has been so sweet. Why have I been so blessed? I feel so grateful, so thankful, so...full of life. Don't misunderstand me. There have been times of heartache, frustration, second guessing, wondering why, sadness, anger, hurt, disillusionment, etc.
But, it seems I have a personality flaw...I'm an optimist. And so, eventually, everything seems sweet to me.


1 comment:

jess said...

i really like this - keep it up...